Failure makes life a living hell!

Failure makes life a living hell , when ever we face failure in our life the only thing we do is to think about the mistake that cost us more than we could ever imagine,during those phases we do not feel like interacting with our  own people ,the  mother 's food we use to enjoy,relish  becomes a necessity and the night's which we use to be pleasant with sound sleep, now leaves us with worries about the past and sleeplessness!!
All we think about is how people around us ,our family ,our friend's will treat us,i just worry about how my family will take it.We try to re-live those moments which brought us the failure and sort out our mistakes ,most of us even me face failure because of laziness ,a disease which has crept into us like the air we breath.
Difficult times ahead is the only thing that scares the shit out of us,change of lifestyle ,we lose our self-confidence,everybody we will scrutinize us with the same thing over and over again and we feel WTF!!
I may sound cliche but yehi true hai!
Difficult times just indicate one thing ,the good times lie ahead just hold on their don't lose hope ,the greater the difficulty the more pleasant is the time ahead!!!
Failure slaps us in the public we feel embarrassed ,our mind just keeps playing past and worrying about what lies ahead ,just trust is god or destiny or even better yourself .That trust will give us the self confidence and again we shall rise!
Facing failure isn't a sin but , fearing it and not trying again is!!!!
when ever i feel happy ,and everything in my life is turning out the way i wanted it to be failure hits me in the face ,saying life is not a fairytale .During those low phases i stay at home for a day or two and try to redeem myself back to my normal life.Just remember one thing we did our best with what ever resources were provided to us at point of time!!!!
Arise ,Awake and stop Not till the Goal is reached-Swami Vivekanandha